Laughter is the best medicine

Cancer really isn't that funny. It isn't even fun. But funny things happen along the way to beating it. For example, during my last go around with Hodgkin's I was on the same treatment schedule as Bill Cosby's slightly older sister Bunny. I really don't think she was his older sister but it sure made me laugh to see her smiling full mustache and all every time I went in for treatment.

The purpose of this blog then is to share the funny events that take place while I beat cancer as well as keep folks up to date on my treatments, progress and banana flavored barium intake schedule. Please feel free to share funny things in the comments section as well, as everyone needs a good laugh.

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

ICE round 1 and treatment update

First let me say thanks to everyone for all of the e-mails, messages, comments, visits and especially prayers. It means a lot to a guy who spends most of his time lounging around on a couch or in bed to get these as they provide a great distraction from working on killing cancer cells. They help me feel alive so THANK YOU!!!


A little tardy but thought I would include it for other folks about to go through the same thing on their cancer journey.

After a week at MD Anderson with some fits and starts I was finally admitted to my room the Friday before last around 4pm. Room was great, 2 TVs a couch/bed for Emilia to sleep on, own bathroom, really couldn't have been nicer.

They began infusing the drugs into my newly placed port around midnight. One bag ran for 24 hours, one for 6 hours and one for around 3 hours the first night. 2nd night was just the 6 hour and 3 hour one and third night was just the 3 hour one starting around midnight. I would say all in this round of chemo is about 1.5-2x as hard as ABVD for me. ABVD was around 4 hours and then you could go home and climb into your own bed. Even though it was just 72 hours in hospital, being woken up every 3-4 hours for blood draws, vital signs being taken and the constant smell of chemo didn't make for a whole lotta fun. Or a whole lot of things being able to be kept in my stomach.

When I walked into the room I had tumors pressing on my lower back, my hips and my left femur that I could physically feel and hurt a whole heck of a lot. Given they don't want to mask a fever you aren't allowed to take advil/tylenol/aspirin so to help curb the pain they started with oxycodone, then morphine and finally gave me this cocktail of drugs ABH(ativan/benadryl/haldol) that knocked me out fully. By the 2nd day I no longer had any pain in my back or my hips so thanks be to God the chemo is working as the tumors in those areas have shrunk. Still some pain in my left femur but 2 more rounds to knock that out.

I was released Monday afternoon and thanks to my good old Dad being there as he wheeled my fat butt from the Hospital across the sky bridge to the hotel room. Only 2nd time in my life I was too weak to walk very far which sucked. But by late the following day I was on my feet and steady.

On the very funny side, one of the drugs causes neuro-toxicity so they run fluids through you like no tomorrow and monitor your output. HA. Some of the drugs must have stayed in my system as the first night back in the hotel I would wake up every hour as I thought it was my responsibility to mentally check on the other cancer patients temperatures in the hotel(you see anything above 101 leads to an ER trip). I was really out of my gourd and I don't think I have ever heard my wife laugh harder as I told her of this ability and responsibility. 2nd day my head was still a little cloudy but by the third day I was thinking as clear as I had prior.

Tuesday got a neulasta shot which forces your body to make white blood cells in massive quantities. In return for this it causes bone pain like no tomorrow for a couple of days. Hurt even to eat. (I tell you this chemo is great for the diet plan, walked into that room 205, walked into my 6 days later 196).

Had to stick around MD Anderson for 2 days given the clinical trials I am on to give blood and then home that Thursday. I would say by this past Sunday I was doing pretty well chemo wise. Still very tired, rest a lot but am walking(did 2.5 miles yesterday) and eating full meals.

As part of the clinical trials they monitor my blood basically every other day. Went yesterday and as chemo kicks in about a week after fully knocking the white blood cells down mine were at about 15% of what a normal persons are right now. Its called being neutropenic, so nothing raw for me, or public places or being around kids--save my own. So thankful for having a house and a backyard to sit in and rest. Also my platelets are down to 51 from a normal person's range of 150-400. This is a new one for me and has led to being really darn tired. Its a miracle if I can make it to 8pm. I am so thankful for my San Antonio oncologist though Dr. Kulter who looked at these and said, "exactly what I would expect, keep charging", now thats a dr. who knows what a guy needs to hear.

I am getting daily exercise though, doing my walks, eating well and enjoying the family that is all around. Overall beyond the fatigue I would say I am doing great and enjoying lots of moments everyday. Just thankful to have no pain and be able to to be.

Round 2 of ICE is scheduled for the 25th so a great 9 more days to get my strength up and enjoy the San Antonio weather.

Peace in Christ, C.

7 comments:

  1. Enjoy the weather Chuck. NY is kinda sucking today. It'll get better.

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  2. Glad you made it through the first round. I think one of my cousins comments last year after he started a similar treatment (chemo/stem cell/etc.) was that it is a difficult but very effective weight loss program. I wondered how fast your immune system would drop, we had talked about if it was safe to visit you. That's a pretty impressive drop, IIRC the goal is %.05 of your normal immunity. Not fun, but fight like the fighting Irish do!

    Besides as this rate I'll pack on all the pounds you are losing. If you want them back later you can have them.

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  3. Hi Charles, I'm Erika Emilia's cousin form Monterrey.
    I am glad that the pain is less and you are able to enjoy the weather in Texas this time of year: nice and still not too hot. We are living in Hoboken now, it is a shame we where not able to see more often but I am glad I got to see Emilia, tia Emilia and Aiden once in central park last summer. I have a daughter named Emilia, she is 18 months now and I have to confess I have always liked that name and I think of your wife and remember when we where little always tought she was beautiful (inside and out) I hope that my Emilia grows up to be as beautiful as her aunt :)
    take care,
    erika hdz

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  4. Hey Charles Adam says " I hear ya man" the neulasta ( or GCSF or neupagen(sp)) hurt him too. His lower back was so bad he could hardly move. The good news is that it means you are producing white cells. That stuff is expensive we have about 10k worth in the fridge. Adam always took baths it seemed to help. Eating is tough we tried to feed Adam Ensure with iron, ask the doc it is packed with calories.

    We are thinking of you and praying daily.

    PIC
    The Varda's

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  6. IT'S MIX FEELING ABOUT YOU AS I AM IN ALMOST SAME BOAT WITH YOU AS I AM STAGE Iv HL PATIENT GOT REMISSION IN JANUARY AFTER 4 ABVD ROUNDS JUST HAD POST ABVD PET/CT WHICH IS BIT CONCERNING AS I HAD COMPLETE METABOLIC RESPONSE AFTER 4 ROUNDS OF ABVD BUT THIS POST PET/CT IS HURTING AS I AM ALSO A FAMILY MAN 2 BOYS I LITTLE ANGLE GIRL AND LOVELY WIFE WHO IS TERRIFIED BY KNOWING FACT HIS HUSBAND IS GOING THROUGH LIFE AND DEATH SCENARIO BY THE WAY CAN YOU TELL ME HOW IT'S POSSIBLE TO GET THAT DISEASE THAT MUCH WIDESPREAD AS YOU GOT AGAIN AS YOU JUST HAD CLEAR CT LAST NOVEMBER AND CAN YOU PLEASE TELL ME HOW MANY SITES OF ACTIVITY YOU HAVE NOW AND HOW MANY EXTRANODAL SITES YOU HAVE NOW AS I HAD MINE LEFT 4TH RIB AFFECTED WITH HODGS .HOPING YOUR STEM CELL TRANSPLANT WILL GIVE YOU CURE AND HAPPY HEALTHY LIFE WITH YOUR FAMILY AGAIN FOREVER

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  7. Chuck - I wish I had a story that rivals yours - I think the the "mental check-ups" is the freaking most hilarious thing I have heard in awhile (throughout this round of chemo YOU HAVE NOT LOST YOUR SENSE OF ABSURDITY!!!) I think after the transplant you should consider writing a book! - Hang in there!

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